Don’t Kill Yourself Creating Your Dream Life
Most people who try to create and do BIG things with their lives are the “A” type personality people… the Drivers… the Movers and Shakers!
The type of people who demand success from themselves and they want it to happen now! The type of people who are constantly pushing themselves… always moving forward with new ideas… and who always demand perfection.
And while being driven like this is a good thing, it can also be a very detrimental thing.
I have heard from medical friends of mine that most of the people who deal with stress, depression and anxiety type issues are “A” type people.
They demand so much of themselves, that in reality they are very hard on themselves. The constant pressure to perform that they place on themselves causes serious health issues.
When goals are not achieved quickly they get frustrated… they push themselves harder… resulting in them becoming worn out… drained… and down on themselves.
Then what happens is they push themselves even hard, making their goal their main focus in life… neglecting all other aspects of their lives.
Including their friends, family, entertainment activities and their health.
Eventfully over time one of two things happens to a person like this who is attempting to achieve their goals.
They give up!
And they end up living the rest of their lives resigned to their failure, always wondering what they could have done different that would have allowed them to become a success.
The live the rest of their life surviving but never really thriving.
Thing 2) They figure it out.
They discover the secret to success at anything.
Some may call it growing up. Some may call it maturing.
Whatever you want to call it makes no difference….
What happens is the person comes to realize there is no magic pill to success… there is no short cut to success!
They come to realize that the ONLY way they can become a success and achieve any goal is to simply create a plan that fits into their lifestyle…
A plan that is proven… that will get them to where they want to go “Eventually”!
=> They have to learn to have patience…
=> They learn success is a journey…
=> They learn that success is a marathon not a sprint!
=> They come to understand that the story of the “Tortoise and the Hair”… is actually a lesson on success.
Spending a reasonable amount of time daily or weekly on a plan… while not neglecting other aspects of their life is the key.
Settling in and enjoying the ride… not putting unrealistic time frame goals on yourself… they secret is to simply keep moving forward, always working your plan, but at a realistic pace, while not allowing your self to get wound up and frustrated.
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Success is just a matter of time.
The reason most people do not achieve their goals is because they are impatient, they will start on one plan, it does not happen fast enough they get discouraged and quit. They then start a different plan some time later, only to repeat the whole cycle over and over again.
When in reality if they had simply worked their original plan, not pressuring themselves, making sure they remained patient, they would have gone onto success a long time ago!
Learning this lesson is easier to write about then to learn… it has taken me many years to understand and has caused me many headaches and frustrations. But when it clicked for me life instantly improved!
I encourage you to learn from those who have gone before!
Settle in and enjoy the journey! The only way you can fail is if you quit.
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